Wednesday, August 14, 2013
Today, Asena and I took a bus to the beach. The beach we went to is near a small down called Cesme and in this town, the "beaches" have no sand. Instead, they are small beach clubs on the shore of bay. We went to a club called Marrakech which was slightly more expensive than the other 6 clubs, but we found out later that there were many celebrities there. The water was turquoise and extremely cold, but according to Asena it was the perfect temperature. We then had dinner in the neighboring town. Overall it was an extremely relaxing day!
Saturday, August 10, 2013
After having breakfast with Asena's family, we drove to a famous spot for Christians especially, because it is the place where the Virgin Mary supposedly died. There were many Europeans who came specifically to this place. Then, we went to old Greek ruins about a five minute drive away and saw many reconstructed houses and amphitheaters. We then drove to a small town nearby where I bought an antique Turkish carpet. The pattern is very similar to that of an Afghan carpet. After this small excursion, we drove to another small slightly touristy mountain village and had grape leaves, "kefir", a fermented yogurt drink, and fresh ice cream. At the ice cream stand, the guy kept playing tricks, where he would pretend to give me the cone but in fact there was another cone stacked so I had to work hard for my ice cream!
This morning, after a solid 9 hours of sleep, we went to breakfast. When I went to pour my tea, I didn't realize that there were two knobs, one with the tea and one with hot water. Asena told me later that people put hot water in as well so it isn't so strong. Later, we walked around a town called Alacatni where we has a delicious avocado salad at a small restaurant called El Beso.
We then headed to the lfmao concert which, according to the advertisements, is the "largest beach party in turkey".
Friday, August 9, 2013
Though I was sad to leave Oman, it was quite an adventure getting to Istanbul. After stopping in Bahrain for two hours, I made my way to Istanbul and walked through the entire international airport and finally arrived at the domestic section. In two separate instances, people came up to me speaking French and Turkish. That's a new one.
I arrived in Izmir, where my friend and her family picked me up. After settling in, we went for a walk around the port and met our friend Can for dinner. After dinner, we walked around Izmir and finally, after not sleeping for close to 48 hours, I was able to rest.
Woke up early this morning in order to go to the souq one last time. The las day of Ramadan is called eid. During eid, people shop for new items and at the souq, there are special sections just for eid. So, I saw a very lively livestock sale and many gathering in preparation for this Christmas esque holiday.
Then a few friends and I went to the Nizwa fort, something I have been wanting to do since I got to Nizwa.
Then around 1pm I departed from Nizwa and said goodbye to the friends I had become so close to....we ate together, lived together, studied together etc so this was a difficult goodbye. I then took a cab with a few friends to muscat where we were invited by the chancellor of the university of Nizwa to have dinner with his family. We arrived and then immediately following, we toured all of the must see spots in muscat. Then we came back and had a wonderfully cooked homemade meal with traditional Omani food.
The night ended perfectly, with fruit, Omani coffee, and small sweets.
I will definitely miss Oman, the friends I have made, the hospitality and the close knit community, and most of all, hearing and seeing Arabic everywhere and at all times.
في المستقبل،آمل أن سافر إلى عمان مرة أخرى
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
Just completed the final exam both written and oral sections. It's nice to be done with classes, after eight tough weeks of grammar and vocabulary, my brain can finally relax after being on overdrive for such a long time. It's a relief to have the final exam done, though I will miss the class, both the students and the routine I had become accustomed to.
The entire class gave our professor small tokens of appreciation from our home town/region. He asked us "is it traditional to open presents in front of people" we said "no" then he said "okay good because I will take my time looking at them and remembering."
Here is a photo taken after our final exam. We all wore our traditional dress.
Monday, August 5, 2013
Today was our last day of classes! Though I'm sad it's nearly the end of the program and I know I will definitely miss all the wonderful people I have met, I am ready to travel and have personal time with my family. Today, we reflected back on our experiences and our initial feelings coming into the program. I realized just how different living in the Gulf is compared to other people's experiences in Middle Eastern countries. The foreign labor aspect (most laborers are from Southeast Asia) is a larger component of Omani culture than I originally anticipated.
I also was really able to see my progress, as it was especially evident today. We had a practice speaking session for the oral component of our final exam and I clearly understood the questions that were being asked of me. I was able to answer in coherent and complete sentences. At the beginning of the program, I knew a few words that could help me get around in daily life, but now I feel I have progressed to a level of proficiency that will allow me to delve further into the culture of the middle eastern country that I happen to be in, and even to converse with my professor back in the states upon my immediate return. To understand a culture, I've realized, it's essential to know the language. So much of a culture is understanding the nuances of the language which often get lost in translation. In literature for example; reading a translation of an original text is significantly different than knowing and comprehending the original words and meanings behind the words.
Cultural context is another aspect of living abroad that I will never again take for granted. People make references in Arabic about regional people, tribes, and cultural aspects, that even an Arabic scholar might not understand because he or she has not lived in that certain country.
And finally, I realized how difficult progressing in the intermediate level is going to be. The jump from the beginner level to the intermediate level is tremendous, though from intermediate to advanced is much less evident.
Side note: One thing I probably won't miss, is the 115 degree weather and the lack of greenery in my surroundings. I also will not miss not being able to walk around by myself, even during daylight hours.
Last night, there was a huge storm, with wind and sand and later, rain. During that time, we lost power for about two hours which was also quite and experience. We wound up doing yoga in the dimly lit hallway (emergency lights are always a benefit).
Here is a picture of our room (for those who wanted to see) and the view from our window after the rainstorm
Friday, August 2, 2013
This morning we received an email saying that the US embassy would be closed on August 4th. After reading this email, I checked the New York Times, to find that this closing was not simply scheduled for Oman, but several other middle eastern countries such as Libya, Kuwait, Saudi Arabia etc. Here is an article that explains the issue in more depth.
On a side note, this morning I took a cab back from the LuLu supermarket to our apartments. The cab driver and I agreed upon 200 baiza but when we arrived to my destination he said in Arabic "it's free. Thank you." My first thoughts were "why is he driving me for free?" and "why is he thanking me?". Before coming to Oman, people told me things like this have happened, but I never thought it would happen to me!
Thursday, August 1, 2013
With classes wrapping up and the program coming to an end, we are all in overdrive mode. Next week, we have presentations, oral proficiency tests (opi) and a final exam to look forward to. It's been hot here, though that's no different than any other day. After Oman, I will be traveling to Turkey, and hopefully continuing my blog!
A friend shared this hilarious but all too true page about life in the Middle East. I would say most of the items apply to what I/we are feeling right now.